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Most of us suffer a bad breakup at least once in our lives. You may or may not be dying to get your ex back, but if you are, stay tuned. This could be just the wake up call you need.

First of all, if you’ve just been through a breakup, there’s definitely a reason. While there can be many reasons for breaking up, here are my top Five Reasons:

1. Infidelity
2. Lack of chemistry
3. Boredom
4. Lack of sex
5. Abuse

If your breakup was due to abuse, no matter if you’re a man or a woman, walk away. Abusers don’t change and you’ve probably endured enough pain, mentally and physically, to last you a lifetime. Life is too short to be stuck in that type of relationship.

However, if it was due to the other 4 reasons on the list, there is hope to get your ex back.

So if you’re in the market to get him back, think about these issues and decide if you think the two of you can resolve them together. It will take a commitment on both your part to fix what’s not working.

You now know the top reasons that people break up, but did you know that the key to get your ex back is in the approach? This will determine whether or not you’ll be successful in actually getting them back. Doing it the wrong way may mean that you lose them forever.

When you’re in the process of trying to get their attention, remember to be strong, to be interesting and somewhat unavailable. Resist your urge to contact them constantly and beg them to come back. No one wants someone who is weak. If you fall into this type of behavior, you will only push them further away.